Ok. So, ladies, we have all been there. Dating, seeing someone, nothing serious, call it what you may- it’s about two people getting to know each other in a non threatening, fun kinda way.
First date, second date, third date… in time, conversation turns to sex. Some big it up, some don’t. After all, just because that one dude made you scream his name from dusk till dawn don’t mean my man will, right? Plus, life experience jades us and we tend to enter future dalliances with a ‘it’s just a bit of fun’ attitude where we forget just how screwed up good sex can make us…
In time attention is turned to the act itself. Some of us wanna keep it at the kissing and fondling stage for a while, while some of us wanna jump right in and find out if this person can REALLY make you feel the way they think they can make you feel. After all, my man is FIIIIIINE, you want him, he wants you- you need to know if there are gunna be fireworks sooner rather than later, right?
Sometimes the sex is whack. The person can’t live up to everything they said. This can be awkward for obvious reasons, so its defiantly a case of ‘don’t call me, I’ll call you thank you VERY much, not!’. On other occasions the sex is ok. And then there’s the kind of sex on a whole other level.
The King of Sexing. I am of the opinion that some people just sex how you sex, I’m sure you all know exactly what I mean. This man can’t only hit the spots, its the ways he touches, kisses, licks- god damn everything. Now, this can be a head fuck, if, like me, you generally like to get to know someone before feeling ‘sexually free’. You know free to do that freaky shit you REALLY like doing…
as time passes it gets better. And better. And better. And better. All those freaky little things you like, you don’t even have to discuss, this man knows exactly what he is doing. Then one day you wake up and BANG, all you can think of is having sex. With this person. Cos let’s face it, if you are getting it good, not even Trey Songz can muscle in on that shit. Just the thought of having sex with that person turns you on so much you feel like you could sprint to them quick time and still have the energy for a 3 hour session between the sheets.
Trust me, us women can shave our legs, pussy and fix our hair in 3 seconds flat if my man says he is on his way. Been looking like shit all day but man walks in and we sit there like ‘yeah we look like this all the time now come take your clothes off’. I’m talking leg shaking, lip quivering, screaming out, back scratching sex, the kind many don’t even know exists, or would like to forget about because they had it that once and settled for less than.
One weekend you are going to a party so won’t get to see him. WHAT PARTY?!? Sex seems to be everywhere. Every conversation with said person turns to sex. You wanna do things to this person you had always avoided with previous partners. Instead of buying clothes for parties, money is now spent on lingerie and sex toys. You are whipped!!!
Written by Chantelle Mbye
